Should i tell my boyfriend im suicidal?!
Question: ive been thinking of suicide these past few days. the more i think about it, the more appealing it is. the pain of my current situation is unbareable. i used to be pretty good with dealing wuth pain but now the only other one who loves me (besides my boyfriend) was my puppy but she died a couple of days ago. dont have any friends, really, just a ton of aquiantances (?). but other times i feel fine like i couldnt hurt myself but other times im suicidal. should i tell my boyfriend so he could break up with me? i want to stay together but im unstable and i love him and want him to do whats best for himself. im sorry if this doesnt make sense. its hard for me to think clearly these days.
Answers: ive been thinking of suicide these past few days. the more i think about it, the more appealing it is. the pain of my current situation is unbareable. i used to be pretty good with dealing wuth pain but now the only other one who loves me (besides my boyfriend) was my puppy but she died a couple of days ago. dont have any friends, really, just a ton of aquiantances (?). but other times i feel fine like i couldnt hurt myself but other times im suicidal. should i tell my boyfriend so he could break up with me? i want to stay together but im unstable and i love him and want him to do whats best for himself. im sorry if this doesnt make sense. its hard for me to think clearly these days.
I think that is just it you have no friends. You have no one to vent to . Maybe if you could just learn to have friends. I know it is hard trusting people without them judging you. Hell make friends on here, it doesn't hurt. Especially in the mental health section. Maybe you are sad because you want to find things that make you happy. Find out what will fulfill your life right now and make that happen. Make a list of what is bothering you and make a list of what you want to happen in your life. Do this because you only get one life that we know of and you may as well make the best of it. I've started by writing quotes to get me through the day. My favorite one being "The hard part is getting started". It is so true cause that is the hardest part to getting started to doing anything. I don't know what goes through your head therefore I can't really give you full details on exactly how to help. Just know that suicide isn't the way. I know we have all been there though and know that you aren't alone. Write me if you have any questions.
First of all, don't do it. Tell your boyfriend so you have some support. I doubt he'll break up with you if he loves you. Call the Suicide Hotline. Im sorry your puppy died, please don't kill yourself.
He has a right to no
And i no what your going though.
I didnt have anyone there for me exept myself when i went through that. but im almost 14 so who knows
every situation is different but dont any furhter down the path your on. The furhter you go the harder it is to come back from it
Im sorry to hear about the loss of your puppy.
Reach out to a professional counselor to give you some prespective on your situation. Don't hurt yourself.
Tell him. If he cares for you he will stick by your side no matter what. I know exactly how you feel. I have been suicidal. Sometimes I would be so happy and then sometimes I would want to overdose. Please call the suicide hotline. They are there to help. They won't judge you. I've lost 2 puppies in the past year so I know exactly how you are feeling. The number for the hotline is 1-800-784-2433 or 1-800-273-8255. You can also check this link for one in your state: http://suicidehotlines.com/
you should tell this to your boyfriend. whatever happens, but tell him. you should go for a holiday or fun party. try yoga. try to love yourself more, try to feel that you are precious to this world. try to be strong enough to handle your feelings.
puppies do sometimes die--- can you not get another---this always helps me. Were his injections up to date. There are some nasty infections that will kill a pup real quick but they can be avoided. Talk to your bf of how you feel. That's what friends are for . You have to let him be a friend as well as a bf. He also loves you in his way and will be more than happy to help. So try to communicate more and good luck with the pup.
i was feeling like this at one point and i told my boyfriend and he was there for me and if your boy really does love you he will be there for you im so sorry about your puppy i hate it when your animal dies..please dont hurt yourself..look at all your answers these people dont even know you and there trying to help they dont want you to hurt yourself just wait for things to get better they always do
hang in there, so to speak and try to quit shooting off your mouth so much.
if you find that somewhat funny then you are fine. if that makes you real mad then you should seek professional help immediately.
Advice .... get another dog, be thankful for what you do have and for the people that are coming into your life in your future. Of course, suicide would take away all those future good things because your life is over. Also, realize that you may have a false sense of what life is all about if you are living in a fantasy world of movies, internet and celeb magazines. You have a negative self image and probably should, so why not turn your life around. Look for some meaning, study religions and philosophies as those people are less suicidal statistically speaking. Your boyfriend does deserve better and you can improve your life, there is no guarantee that his next girlfriend would be better than you and could really hurt him bad.