Should i wait to have sex?!
Question: i was wondering if someone of experience obviously, can tell me if its worth it to have premarridal sex.
im a virgin. and i was wonderind if sex is all people say it is? and if its more worth it to wait until the right person and youre married?
Answers: i was wondering if someone of experience obviously, can tell me if its worth it to have premarridal sex.
im a virgin. and i was wonderind if sex is all people say it is? and if its more worth it to wait until the right person and youre married?
YES!
There's no rush, it's nothing special unless it's with the right person anyways. Virgin status may seem like a big thing when you're a teenager (or before?), but as you and your peers mature, you'll realise that the people who don't rush into it are the smartest and most well-respected.
No one ever regretted not having sex to early: it's the only way to guarantee that you won't get pregnant or get an STD that will be with you forever, being a constant reminder of your mistake.
If eventually you meet someone and it feels like a secure, healthy, loving relationship and you feel 100% ready, make sure you're protected. The pill is only 98% effective against pregnancy and 0% against STD's. Condoms are 97% effective, but there are a lot of STD's, such as genital warts and HPV, for which condoms offer very little protection.
Around 60% of sexually active individuals have HPV, the virus that causes cervical cancer, and the vaccine doesn't protect against all strains of the virus.
Sorry, I went off on a tangent, but I want to to realise that sex is a big step, and you should never rush into a big decision. You can still be a very sexual person without having sex. Anyone who says otherwise is insecure with their own sexuality.
just wait for the right person u feel comftarble with
well i wouldnt kno becuz i am too, but the thing is im yung only 16 yet
i wont do it becuz im afraid to get pregnant or a disease
plus for believing god and everything really i should wait
and another thing i would only want to loose it if i found someone special not just some guy that wants to get in yur pants.
just think about it
wat do yu really want to do
its yur life
yu do wat yu want
unless you have an extra $200,000 to raise your child for the next 18 years !
yeah u shuld wait till the right person comes along.. like that ur sure to live the rest fo ur life with ;)
good luck
Most importantly is how old you are???? IF you're a teen ager than yes wait for you to get older. If you're in your 20 or older than I would say that it would depend one the depth of the relationship with whom ever you're with. IF you want to remain a virgin, than you have to realize that there are pros's and cons for that. Yes saving your self for marriage is very special, and would alleviate any possibility of unwanted pregnancy or STD's. But it would also mean that you're inexperienced and unless you also marry a virgin you might spend your life wondering if you measure up to his past lovers. Sex with the right person can be one of lifes most beautiful experinces for both of you. But it has to have some feeling and emotion behind it. Sex just for the sake of having sex doesn't make sense married or unmarried.
I think that if you think you are ready, and it's the right person... and if you are CAUTIOUS (condoms, birth control, etc) and know what the possible results from sex are (std's, pregnancy) then go ahead.
Abstinence is a good idea in theory, but it's ignorant not to give all the information. Everyone is different. If it's right, and you are educated about it, go for it!
please wait until you are older there is a disease called hpv that is not very fun and you do not want to get it. it is an epidemic and you cannot tell if a man has it. plus it makes it much more special just wait you are not missing anything.
I don't think it has anything to do with marriage but if that is your beleif then so be it. To be honest, its really not as good if you don't trust the person and if you feel uncomfortable with them.
Don't do it until the right person comes along. You will know it. And, if you wait until marriage, that is okay. Just make sure the other person cares for you before you do this.
i don't know if it's worth it to wait until you're married or not, but it's DEFINITELY worth it to wait until you are in a relationship with someone you care about. casual sex is overrated and it's so much better with someone you care about. so yes, wait until you feel like it's the right time.