I'm upset with her for being snobby to me. :( Is it me or what? HELP HELP?!
Question: To help you understand this conversation, my BEST freinds dad is a construction worker and he traveled to Washington State for 3 weeks. I am a money-paranoid girl and i hate it when people like brag and stuff and she is my BEST friend i KNOW she knows that! And then she goes off like this it really pisses me off. Dont say anything mena
me[5:27 PM]: i fo got ur dad is home now
me[5:27 PM]: thats kool
her [5:28 PM]: yeah but now we have so much shoppin to do
me[5:28 PM]: why, do you get your mom a lot of presants or something?
her [5:28 PM]: apparently
her [5:29 PM]: my mom gave us a list and said she didn't want everything on it and i told my dad but he still wants to get her everything
me[5:29 PM]: oh...
her [5:29 PM]: and thats a lot of stuff
her [5:30 PM]: well my dad doesnt care cuz he just got his pay check for washington and he made a ton of money there so thats y he doesnt care
me[5:30 PM]: nice
her [5:31 PM]: yeah
me[5:31 PM]: yea.
Answers: To help you understand this conversation, my BEST freinds dad is a construction worker and he traveled to Washington State for 3 weeks. I am a money-paranoid girl and i hate it when people like brag and stuff and she is my BEST friend i KNOW she knows that! And then she goes off like this it really pisses me off. Dont say anything mena
me[5:27 PM]: i fo got ur dad is home now
me[5:27 PM]: thats kool
her [5:28 PM]: yeah but now we have so much shoppin to do
me[5:28 PM]: why, do you get your mom a lot of presants or something?
her [5:28 PM]: apparently
her [5:29 PM]: my mom gave us a list and said she didn't want everything on it and i told my dad but he still wants to get her everything
me[5:29 PM]: oh...
her [5:29 PM]: and thats a lot of stuff
her [5:30 PM]: well my dad doesnt care cuz he just got his pay check for washington and he made a ton of money there so thats y he doesnt care
me[5:30 PM]: nice
her [5:31 PM]: yeah
me[5:31 PM]: yea.
It can be hard somtimes when you are tight on money. She might have not realised how it looked or how much it hurt you that she said that. Although it can be hard with your situation, just let her be. on-line conversations aren't always as they seem (many bad past inncodents : / ) Good luck. I wish you the best Christmas, with as much money or as little money as you have, you can still make it the best. Spend time with your family and spread your love for everyone.
She didn't sound like she was being snobby, she was having a conversation with you that led to money and you were leading her there
u shouldn't let it bother u. u r gonna run into a lot of people that like to brag about their money situation. thats just how it is here. don't let it get to u.
I don't think she was being snobby, just conversational.
Well, it didn't sound nasty to me. I think that you're just taking it the wrong way. If she's your best friend, then why not talk to her about it and see if she was really being snobby or if she didn't have a clue that it was going to upset you.
Look if she is your friend maybe she is trying to tell you too stop complaining so much,and why do you complain about the same thing over and over again sometime things get old. Find something new to talk about and new things to do. Make it seem like this is a test from God to be better in life and your career than you folf. and don't dwell on what others have and she may be selfish or you may be jealous even so if you two are friends act like it; It shouldnn't bother either one of you what each other parents have, focus on what you want to have in life and get started on it. You can't change what your parents are or did just make your life and enjoy it and try to enjoy one another friends are few and chossen. Make the best of it!!!!!!!