Have you met anybody who is just plain nasty and it is an illness?!
Question: I mean really really nasty and it seems that he can't help himself and he is a masochist wanting punishment.
Answers: I mean really really nasty and it seems that he can't help himself and he is a masochist wanting punishment.
My father is grouchy every day of the year.
He picks at my mother. He complains. He always finds fault.
He does not think there is anything wrong with him.
He thinks everything is always other people's fault.
Nobody has ever put him in his place. He has always been allowed to behave this way his whole life.
HE is not emotionally intelligent.
Yes - but not a masochist, just a nasty, nasty (bitter) human being.
Illness? Probably not, just unhappy and not willing to find joy.
I've met plenty of women who are like that.
A gf of mine who continues to throw herself into the griddy lifestlye because of her attraction for the bad boys, but then she has the nerve to ask "why me?" when something bad happens. WAKE UP. I tell her all the time.
Then a girl I use to go to school with. She was very pretty and had a great outgoing personality but with the need for male attention shes been used up and then tossed to the side, has a child who she thought the father was some hispanic guy but the baby is black therefore she doesnt know who the father is, and she continues to associate herself with drug abusers so now all her looks have faded and she looks like a straight up crack whore. Skin pale and worn out hair nappy... shes gone to ****.
There was a guy in highschool that was so filthy....he could literally Gag A maggot. If you had a class with this guy....the whole class room would stink of Sweat,B.O.,and a s s!
We had P.E. together and even outdoors, he would leave a trail of stench that lingerd in the air....he could be 50 ft away and you could be blind folded and stll be able to walk right to him(if you didnt Vomit or pass out firt) he was just disgusting. I dont know who to blame...his parents or him. Nastiest Mo Fo I ever knew and he was White.
Personality disorder sounds most likely, possibly severe depression/ bi-polar as well.
Yes I have, in this world there are many types of people and the nasty ones I try to avoid like the plague . Some people have bi polar and don't know they have it. Some people struggle with mental illness for years. And some people aren't the sharpest pencil in the box. I try to distance myself from MEAN people I don't have room for them in my life . Try to let only positive people around you,and don't wait with him while he gets into trouble.Follow your gut feelings about this person.I wish you the best .