How do you get rid of people that is making a nuisance of themselves when I have!
Question: I have these friends that are making a nuisance of themselves. All they do is talk about smokeing weed, talking about going to rob some gas stations. There is a lot of more s*** that they say. It's bulls***.
Answers: I have these friends that are making a nuisance of themselves. All they do is talk about smokeing weed, talking about going to rob some gas stations. There is a lot of more s*** that they say. It's bulls***.
You may have a big heart but you do also have a rational mind to know when friends are just too much to take anymore.
You could benefit from some reading material that will help you learn about passive vs assertive behaviors. Sometimes, you have to assert yourself and stand up to your issues and deal with the people creating them.
Ask yourself if these friends are worth keeping? Do you honestly expect them to change when it's you that has the problem with their behaviors?
Sometimes the kindness we have inside, has to apply to ourselves. Be kind to yourself and get some new friends. Either tell them face to face, or just leave it alone and find a way to not hang out with them anymore. Enough refusals to go anywhere with them or hang out and they will eventually get the message. If not, then be prepared to be direct with them and let them go.
It's not about having a big heart. It's about knowing who you are and realizing that this crowd is not for you. It takes a strong person to come to this decision, but a stonger person to find a better crowd to hang with! Good luck!